As we approach the holiday season, clients often wonder how the first Christmas that the parties are separated will be handled, especially what will happen with the children.  Will Santa Claus really visit both Mom and Dad’s house?  Can the children eat two Christmas meals with turkey dinner at Grandma’s and Christmas Ham at Aunt Susan’s?  Over the years a few set of norms have developed to help families get through Christmas so that not only the children, but also the entire extended family, can enjoy the holidays in peace. Continue Reading